Parenting                                                             

Developing the mind is important, but developing a conscience is the most precious gift parents can give their children. -John Gray


Active Parenting Now.Suitable for parents/adults
by Michael Popkin

Dr. Michael Popkin shows you how to develop courage, responsibility and character in your children. The program shows how to create a communication structure within the family that clarifies values, spells out expectations, and creates a nurturing crucible for emotional development. With a tone that encourages rather than moralizes, the program holds no illusions about family life these days.

Discipline with Dignity.Suitable for parents/adults
by Richard Curwin and Allen Mendler

Educators know that we must have safe schools. Teaching and reinforcing responsible human behavior is the core of "Dignity with Discipline". This book offers specific ways to involve students in defining classroom procedures, rules, and consequences based on values or principles compatible with learning. Strategies are included on working with children who are physically aggressive and explode without provocation as well as working with children on prevention, action, and resolution skills.

Common Sense Parenting.Suitable for parents/adults
by Raymond Burke, Ronald Herron, and Father Flanagan's Boys' Home

This book presents effective parenting techniques that have been taught in classes worldwide and proven in thousands of homes. Topics include setting clear expectations, giving positive and negative consequences for behavior, staying calm, teaching self-control, using Effective Praise and Prevention and Correction Teaching, helping children make decisions and solve problems in school. You will read examples, sample behavior charts, and step-by-step breakdowns of 16 valuable social skills.

Positive Parenting From A To Z.Suitable for parents/adults
by Karen Renshaw Joslin

This is a very useful reference for parents who feel besieged by one problem after another. For each problem, Ms. Joslin offers simple but useful solutions, plus an understanding of the child’s side of the problems. –T. Berry Brazelton, MD.

Positive Discipline A-Z.Suitable for parents/adults
by Jane Nelsen, Lynn Lott, an H. Stephen Glenn

Excellent reference for 1001specific problems parents are experiencing. This book gives suggestions to try, planning ahead strategies to prevent future problems, life skills children can learn, and parenting pointers for each dilemma given.

Positive Discipline for Single Parents: A Practical Guide to Raising Children Who Are Responsible, Respectful, and Resourceful.Suitable for parents/adults
by Jane Nelsen, Ed.D, Cheryl Erwin, M.D., and Carol Delzer, J.D.

This book was creatively designed to give single parents ideas and solutions for handling issues dealing with dating, maintaining communication with the other parent, and even tougher issues such as challenges faced with the other parent. This book is child centered and gives a wealth of information that can be easily applied.

How to Parent Your Tweenager.Suitable for parents/adults
by Dr. Mary Manz Simon

Your child has moved out of childhood to preadolescence, ages 8-12, and you start noticing changes in your child emotionally, physically, socially, and intellectually. This book gives you hands on strategies to work, communicate, and problem solve with your Tweenager.

Time-Out For Parents.Suitable for parents/adults
by Cheri Huber and Melinda Guyol

This easy read book gives many examples of how we as parents can look inward at our own qualities and past experiences to how we can focus outward on bettering our communication and relationship skills with our children.

He Hit Me First.Suitable for parents/adults
by Louise Bates Ames and Carol Chase Haber

This book gives hands on advice on sibling rivalry and how to help your children work through their conflict. It looks at the children’s personalities, individuality, birth order, and ways to improve family relationships. It also gives age appropriate suggestions for children 18 months through 15 years.

Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too.Suitable for parents/adults
by Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish

The #1 "New York Times" bestseller--now with three new insightful and informative chapters. "Siblings Without Rivalry" challenges the idea that constant, unpleasant conflict among siblings is natural and unavoidable and uses action-oriented, accessible anecdotes and stories to show parents the many ways to teach children to get along .

The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Families.Suitable for parents/adults
by Stephen Covey

Stephen Covey takes his 7 habits and interjects into how families can work toward bettering their relationships, time management, organizing priorities, and renewing family spirit within the home.

Tired of Yelling.Suitable for parents/adults
by Lyndon D. Waugh, M.D.

When your children are being difficult, how do you talk to them without losing your temper? Learn how to communicate with your toddlers and teens effectively and expressively.

Whining: 3 Steps to Stopping It Before the Tears and Tantrums Start.Suitable for parents/adults
by Audrey Ricker and Carolyn Crowder

There are few things on the planet that can drive an adult crazy as fast as a ceaselessly whining child. Authors Audrey Ricker and Carolyn Crowder teach parents how to dive beneath the admittedly choppy surface of whining by communicating assertively and then to change things from underneath the maelstrom

Father Courage: What Happens When Men Put Family First.Suitable for parents/adults
by Suzanne Braun Levine

When fathers do more fathering, writes Suzanne Braun Levine in "Father Courage," the effect on society is nothing short of revolutionary. This fascinating look at the changing face of fatherhood is a must-read for every new parent, male or female.

The Loving Parents' Guide to Discipline: How to Teach Your Child to Behave Responsibly--With Kindness, Understanding, and Respect.Suitable for parents/adults

 by Marilyn E. Gootman

Educational consultant Marilyn Gootman wants to change your definition of discipline. Whether you are dealing with a dawdling toddler or a grungy teenager's room, she suggests that discipline should provide a lesson in self-control rather than punishment. Gootman underlines this practical premise in "The Loving Parents' Guide to Discipline." As she explains, "Punishment focuses on bad behavior. The goal of discipline is to teach your child to do the right thing. This includes guiding, encouraging, building self-esteem as well as correcting misbehavior."

Difficult Conversations : How to Discuss What Matters Most.Suitable for parents/adults
by Douglas Stone, Bruce Patton, Sheila Heen

Asking for a raise. Ending a relationship. Saying "no" to your boss or spouse. Confronting disrespectful behavior. Apologizing. Conversations we dread, and often handle clumsily as a result, are part of all our lives: in boardrooms and family rooms, across the negotiation table and the dinner table. Now, Difficult Conversations teaches us how to handle these dialogues with more success and less anxiety.

It's Never Too Soon to DisciplineSuitable for parents/adults
by Dr. Ruth Peters

Peters takes a calm and clearheaded approach to discipline, reminding parents that there is no universal "right" answer, and that discipline is about teaching, not punishing.

The Lunch-Box Chronicles: Notes from the Parenting UndergroundSuitable for parents/adults
by Marion Winik
NPR commentator Winik's hilarious take on life as a single parent (and potential step-parent) is finally available in paperback! Get one for every mommy who needs a good "I'm not the only one" laugh.

Backtalk: Four Steps to Ending Rude Behavior in Your KidsSuitable for parents/adults
by Audrey Ricker, Carolyn Crowder

A New York reader writes that "Backtalk" "helped me stop the screaming matches that were part of our daily family routine and made my life--and I think my children's--much happier."

The Educated Child: A Parent's Guide from Preschool Through Eighth Grade.Suitable for parents/adults
by William J. Bennett, John T. E.,Jr. Cribb, Chester E., Jr. Finn

William J. Bennett joins fellow veterans of the U.S. Department of Education Chester E. Finn Jr. and John T.E. Cribb Jr. in offering a traditional, back-to-basics resource for parents of school-aged children. They provide grade-by-grade listings of the books, facts, and concepts your child should be learning in school--and provide tips on what to do if he or she isn't.

I Refuse to Raise a Brat: Straightforward Advice on Parenting in an Age of OverindulgenceSuitable for parents/adults
by Marilu Henner, Ruth Velikovsky Sharon

In a culture of overindulgence, Marilu Henner and Dr. Ruth V. Sharon speak to parents and grandparents who would like to raise happy, secure children without creating in them an exaggerated sense of entitlement. "I Refuse to Raise a Brat" touts the benefits of occasional frustration and shows how "24-hour womb service" can damage children's growing sense of independence.

Attachment Parenting: Instinctive Care for Your Baby and Young Child.Suitable for parents/adults
by Katie Allison Granju, Betsy Kennedy (Contributor)

The snuggling-and-cuddling, baby-first Attachment Parenting movement is taking parenting circles by storm. Katie Allison Granju's book is filled with advice from lactation specialists and pediatricians to help you raise a secure, relaxed child.

Smart Love: The Compassionate Alternative to Discipline That Will Make You a Better Parent and Your Child a Better Person.Suitable for parents/adults
by William J. Pieper, Martha Heineman Pieper

How do you avoid the common pitfalls of parenting? Trust your instincts, say the Piepers--Martha Heineman and William--in "Smart Love." A psychotherapist and child psychiatrist, respectively, the Piepers use real-life examples from their practices to show you how to strike a happy balance between too much permissiveness and overly harsh discipline.

It Worked for Me!: From Thumb Sucking to Schoolyard Fights, Parents Reveal Their Secrets to Solving the Everyday Problems of Raising Kids.Suitable for parents/adults
by Editors of Parents Magazine, Sally Lee

Imagine being part of a parents' group with hundreds of other moms and dads, a group of parents with children of all ages and temperaments that offer their advice directly to you--in their own words--and a group that spans the United States, yet is as near as your bookshelf. That's exactly what you'll find in "It Worked for Me!," the eminently useful collection of parenting secrets from the editors of Parents Magazine.
Based on the magazine's popular column, this book connects you to a vast network of mothers and fathers who are out there every day solving parenting quandaries with flair. With 437 pages packed with creative ideas and helpful hints on everything from feeding schedules and making boo-boos better to avoiding bedtime battles and cures for "school-itis," you're sure to find answers to any child-care conundrum.

Pick Up Your Socks.. And Other Skills Growing Children Need!Suitable for parents/adults
by Elizabeth Crary, Pati Casebolt (Illustrator)

Teaching tools and insights for parents to help children learn responsibility. Tips, a "job chart," and expectation guidelines make this an invaluable parental aid.

The New Dare to Discipline.Suitable for parents/adults
by James C. Dobson

Children need love, trust, affection--and discipline. From one generation to the next, the challenge of helping children into responsible adults doesn't change. Dr. Dobson's classic Dare to Discipline, a practical, reassuring guide for caring parents, has sold over 2 million copies since its release in 1970. What gives a book that kind of staying power? The ability to meet a real, felt need in the marketplace. Today, a whole new generation of parents is turning to Dr. Dobson's wise counsel. Some things never change.

Parenting Young Children: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (Step) of Children Under Six.Suitable for parents/adults
by Don C. Dinkmeyer (Editor), Gary D. McKay, James S. Dinkmeyer

Based on the nationally successful STEP (Systematic Training for Effective Parenting) program, Parenting Young Children focuses on parents of children under six years of age, and offers guidance on building self-esteem, communicating with young children, and dealing with issues from tantrums to toilet training. Illustrations & charts.